Most people have that one thing that they wish they could change about their appearance, right?
Well for me it's my hair!
My mum is a hairdresser and always knew what was best for my hair (of course she did but I didn't agree at the time) when I moved out of her house I decided she was no longer in control of my hair and went on a mission to get it exactly how I wanted it. The problem is sometimes you just have to work with what you've got rather than completely changing it, this is a lesson I learned the hard way!
The picture above is my hair at its worst and then a recent snap where my hair is visibly in much better condition.
Here are some tips that have helped my hair get back on track:
1. Not washing my hair everyday - My hair tends to get oily fairly quickly, and people with a fringe will know that struggle, however washing your hair everyday can be damaging. Our scalps produce a natural oil which helps protect our hair from outside damage so washing this away every day is not the smartest move. I have picked up a dry shampoo which helps for those inbetween days.
2. Avoiding the use of heat - If I am having a lazy day or just going into work I will not bother to curl my hair. I am lucky as my hair is naturally completely straight (getting a wave is the problem) but I know if you have more of a frizz to your hair you may find this one a challenge.
3. Using a hair mask - This is not really something I considered before but the difference using a hair mask has made is extensive. During my hairs lowest point where it was basically breaking away I was advised to use a Keratin mask, Tresemme Keratin Smooth is a deep treatment mask and my one of choice.
4. Invest in my products - I know not everyone has the ability to do this and I am sure there are some fantastic brands also available on the highstreet, however as my hair was so desperate I invested in the Aveda invati scalp revitalizer range . The products are proven to reduce hair loss due to breakage and help you keep the hair you do have for longer.
5. Changing my style - It is easier to fake the look of thicker hair when styling. Adding a soft wave to the hair adds texture, and using root lifting products also works a treat. Two products that have been rocking my world recently are Redken Diamond Oil & Redken Quick Tease.
Right now for some embarrassing photos ...
So let's quickly go through these various monstrosities above. Firstly I went from normal blonde to REALLY BLONDE, which isn't too bad however the bleach made my hair really dry and damaged not ideal. Dip dye became all the rage so I went for a girlie pink (I also had an identity crisis and went really Essexy yay me) I actually liked the pink ombre for Summer but come Autumn it made clothing choices rather restricted. I wanted a Caroline Flack style dip dye however the hair dresser buggered it right up, the ends of my hair ended up a bluey grey (thankfully I took no photos) as you can see I ended up having no choice but to go brunette. Although lots of people said they liked my hair darker I felt like I had lost my mojo, it probably cost near £1000 to get my hair slowly back to blonde.
Then I made the biggest mistake. I had micro ring hair extensions fitted, I instantly regretted it, although they look pretty cute in the photo above of me in Ibiza, it was a nightmare to style. As my hair is so fine you could see the rings in my scalp and it felt like sleeping on a beaded chair cover. When they came out I had hardly any hair left, and this was just before my wedding, oh the crisis! I ended up wearing clip in extensions for my wedding day and have spent the two years since trying to rescue my poor hair which now looks like the last photo - thank goodness.
I am sorry this post has been a bit more word heavy than usual, please let me know if you have had any hair disasters so I don't feel silly alone!
Love all these old photos Gemma! You can pull of any colour, I'm quite jealous! Your hair is in amazing condition now and you're so good at styling it.
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Haha they are so cringe, but it had to be done! Thanks lovely it definitely hasn't been easy to get it where it is xx
Deleteit took me a long time to realise I didn't need to wash my hair everyday! It gets greasy pretty quickly but the constant washing was making it worse, so I cut down and now I wash it twice to three times a week. It's in much better condition now and also it's a lot less effort!
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It's the hardest one for me to stick to but it makes such a difference. It is definitely worth it X
DeleteWe all have bad hair days! But you look great now! :)
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Thanks Priscilla! X
DeleteThese are really good tips, washing your hair less often makes a huge difference. I think we all have a hair crisis at one point, when I was 16 I dyed my hair so many times that it looked really damaged, it took me a while to rescue it. Your hair looks amazing now btw. x
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Thanks Mira, I am so worried it's going to all go wrong again though! Takes so long to repair it when you ruin it!! XX
DeleteYour hair is in amazing condition now! Go you!! I've had so many hair disasters, being white blonde, to brunette, to black, to ginger, to pink.... haha oh lord! x
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I think the dying it does cause a lot of the issues! My friend Alex hasn't ever coloured her hair and she has the most amazing hair ever!! XX
DeleteLove the old photos! Being brunette does suite you :) but I do think the way you have it now is the best! My hairs in horrible condition! Split ends, frizzy and damaged.
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Thanks Hannah! Couldn't recommend the Redken Diamond oil enough, it's worked wonders! XX
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